MY JOY

Learning to Parent

2011-11-19T13:54:00.000-08:00

It is amazing to me how each stage of our children's lives brings with it a need to learn how to parent all over again. Adalie is entering into a stage that is more grown-up than ever before. This may seem obvious to all, but to a mama who still sees her as my little girl, it is a bit challenging to believe. Adalie is in the 4th grade and is 9 years old, and was just invited to her first "Big Girl" function. The church is taking all of the 4th and 5th graders out for food, games and frozen yogurt.

When she first shared this with me, I instantly went to the place of, "My little girl is growing up. I'm not ready for this." And then as I saw her response of not wanting to go and seeing fear and uncertainty, I instantly felt a need to push her to go. I saw myself in her eyes at that moment and I didn't like it, and I didn't want to foster it.

One night, as we were discussing this, I felt at a loss. "Do I encourage her to go even though she is afraid? Am I suppose to be loving and understanding and let her stay in her insecurity?" I was praying intensely as we talked, and still felt uncertain of how to handle the situation. My own past and insecurities clouding my ability to parent in the moment.

And then entered my man! When confronted with the issue he simply stated, "Adalie, have you asked Jesus whether you should go or not?"

The morning dawned brightly, as Adalie awoke from her sleep, and joined me downstairs on the couch. We cuddled up, and everything in me wanted to ask, "So, what did Jesus say?!?" But within a few moments she shared, "Mommy, I want to go to J12 Jam." I asked why and she stated Jesus told her she needed to be brave, and then gave her a picture of her running, laughing, and having a good time. From that day on she has been excited to go, and is at the event as I type.

I was so proud of my daughter in that moment. She sought the Lord and found peace and joy in His answer. And in her maturity to seek the Lord, I saw her as the young lady she is becoming.

In this new stage of life, where little girls become young ladies, I choose to ask the Lord for wisdom and to trust that He is holding my babes in His hands.

Retreating with my Man

2011-11-19T12:46:00.000-08:00

Thursday was sunny, and so to the beach we ran!

There is something wonderful about getting away with my man! We just returned from the Couple's Conference in Seaside, OR. and what I love is the joy that we feel in eachothers company.

We were able to spend this weekend together because of the blessing of a family who had already registered and then were not able to make it. They called and asked if we could take their place. Another family rented a house and told us there was an extra room if we would like it. The Lord so beautifully provided the way.

Cannon Beach beautiful!

And the weekend was amazing! We had times to be alone and times to play with friends, time to rest, and time to minister late into the night, time to laugh and time to get serious. It was wonderfully refreshing.

The greatest message I took from the conference was the intentionality we need to have in our relationship with the Lord and in our marriages. If we want to see growth in either, we need to be intentional to foster relationship, to find ways to grow and to bless, to encourage and to love. A lot of what was shared was very basic, but I was hit with how important it is to hear those reminders. Sometimes simply brushing up on the basics can bring renewed life to a marriage.

The basic necessity we saw need for growth in was dating! And so, Saturday afternoon, Seth and I dated. We found a table right by the fire (I love fires), ate a yummy lunch, and talked about how to make dating a priority in our marriage. As I mentioned at the beginning of this blog, I love getting away with my man, and this weekend not only allowed for that, but also encouraged more of it, and an intentional plan was made to spend time with him, and only him, weekly. (Hee, hee! That makes me giddy.)

This weekend was a success!

Our weekend ended here! Yum!!

With our friends the Starks,

us,

the Mattos's,

and the Sellstrom's, all coming off a great weekend of togetherness.

Date Night

2011-10-30T20:44:00.000-07:00

Love, love, love them!! Date nights. A time to get away with my man. No worries about school, home, or food. Simply being and enjoying each other. Yes, even dressing up all pretty! This night was extra special because it was spent with our good friends.

The night began with a wild race from the soccer field to the Stark's home, to quickly change, drop off the babes, a few snapped photos, and we were off. We drove to Indian Summer where we entered into a beautifully decorated room for what appeared to be a wedding. The night's theme, "Till Murder do us part." We were embarking on a night of sleuthing, detective work, and careful observation.

After Act 1 the questions were swirling, "Who dunnit? What was the murder weapon? Was it the brooch or the drink? and Weren't those appetizers delightful?"

Act 2 brought with it more questions, a few answers, a yummy salad, soft roll, and a few stolen kisses from my man.

Act 3 completely confused some, threw out many pre-conceived ideas, and then the guesses began. I felt it was the mother-of-the-groom, but couldn't remember a key element. Katy gave me the information, and with her info, my sleuthing sheet was complete. Dinner was served, London Broil, red potatoes, and vegetables. Yum.

Act 4 began. Quickly, the murderer was exposed. The true love was revealed. And all lived happily ever after. The prizes were called out and my sheet was chosen! Katy and I had solved the case! Our prize, a gift certificate to Mercato's, a delightful, Italian Restaurant, in beautiful, downtown Olympia.

What huge diamonds! Party favors are the best.

A few more kisses, party favors collected (for the babes) and our night came to a close. It was a beautiful, girly, all-dressed up, sort of evening. Me and my man, and our friends.

Donuts and other Special Treats

2011-10-30T19:21:00.000-07:00

"Mommy, I want to buy donuts for the family with money out of my piggy bank," Adalie shared joyously one cool, Fall day. "I want to bless our family." And bless us she did! We drove to Heavenly Donuts, pink, piggy bank in hand, and we were all able to choose the most amazing donut we could find. We then took them home and ate them, while we cuddled on the couch, and watched a movie.

I am confident this is God's heart for us. He desires to bless us. He desires to treat us. Donuts are definitely not a necessity, but every once in a while they can be a special treat that puts a smile on our face. :) God wants to do that for us as well. He wants to put a smile on our face.

This week I had to find sitters for three separate evenings. This is something that I don't particularly enjoy doing and find it difficult to say the least. God knew this about my week and He desired to bless me. So, Monday I received a call from one of our Anthem students asking if she could watch our kids for small group on Friday. Wow! Of course! Big Smile! Tuesday, a friend called and asked if she could watch our kids for the class Seth and I are taking on Thursday. This time tears came to my eyes, along with a smile. Wednesday, we had other friends offer to watch the girls on Saturday for our Murder Mystery Dinner Theater we were attending.

God knew what was needed this week, and instead of saying, "Figure it out," He said, "I want to bless you. Your sitters are taken care of."

We serve an amazing God who gives special treats to His children, and this week they came in the form of three beautiful people offering a beautiful gift.

Friendship

2011-10-20T22:48:00.000-07:00

We have been blessed with some amazing friends! Do you know the verse in the Bible that states, "We are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses."? That is what I think of when I think of the friends the Lord has brought into our life. "We are surrounded by a great cloud of amazing people."

In friendship is the ability to grow and be stretched, the opportunity to laugh and vulnerability to cry, unity as we are all listening to the voice of God and trying to walk boldly in His ways. Friendship is important. Heb. 10:24-25 states, "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another-and all the more as you see the Day approaching."

So many of you, without even knowing, have encouraged me greatly. I have had so many warm, fuzzy feelings toward you all, it's ridiculous. I have stood back and marveled at the goodness of the Lord to place such wonderful people in my life.

So, to you my friends, I say thank you. Thank you for pouring out your life for me. For sharing your life with me. For loving me. I am truly blessed.

It's Back!

2011-10-19T21:37:00.000-07:00

About three months ago, my computer died, and with it my ability to blog on a regular basis. I was ready to throw it away, but before I decided where I should throw it, I gave it to my girls as a toy. A couple weeks ago however, a friend of ours confiscated my computer with hopes of fixing it. In my mind, my computer was toast, and with little knowledge of the tech world, I didn't know exactly how he would fix it.

Well, last night my computer was returned to me running bigger and better than ever! That's right! Somehow, it is now faster, can hold more information, and is basically better than I could have imagined. And that makes me happy.

While writing this I realize that a lot of times the way I felt about my computer is how I feel about different circumstances in my life. "Hope is lost." "I can't believe for that, because it doesn't make any sense." "This or that is too hard to fix, so why try." But just like with my computer, I realize that nothing is too difficult for the Lord. He can take any circumstance, relationship, or desire, and even if it seems all is lost, or something has died, He can raise it from the pit and bring it back, Bigger and Better than ever.

We serve an Awesome God, and that makes me Really happy.

PS-Do you see what is sitting on top of my computer? That's right!, my camera that was lost last Easter! It was found by another friend during a meeting we were having at our home. So, in one week my camera and my computer were restored. Yippee!!

The Water Bed

2011-09-13T19:28:00.000-07:00

It's interesting to me how different things are today than when I was growing up. For instance, I was very familiar with what a water bed was as a child, but my children, I realized recently, are not.

Seth and I had a meeting at our friends house, and decided to take our girls with sleeping bags, pillows and blankies to lay down in the back room. As we were getting them all snuggled in our host told the girls that they were laying on a water bed. Kylia, amazed at the idea, immediately dropped to her knees, peered "into" the bed and asked, "Are there fish inside?"

Hee, Hee, Hee!!!! :)

Yellowstone in ALL its Glory

2011-09-01T21:20:00.000-07:00

In my last post I shared about the purpose of our trip. This post is about all that took place on the first half of our trip, the portion spent in Yellowstone National Park.

Our trip began a little shaky. As we prepared to roll down the road, our battery was dead. Before reaching our first destination we blew a tire.

As we traveled for a 100 miles without a gas station in sight we ran out of that oh so important fluid. But, as we rolled into Yellowstone National Park, and spied the first of many wild and awesome creatures, all of our struggles disappeared, because we knew, we were about to embark on an amazing adventure.

The adventure began with the spotting of a coyote on the hunt, and a bison lazily walking along. Our parents joined us in our adventures, and each day the seven of us jorneyed out to discover all the beauty that God created.

At one of many slow downs in traffic we spotted a black bear hungrily storing up for the winter.

As another crowd of people gathered we found a herd of elk being routed by a pack of wolves. The wolves corralled the elk into a pond and would not allow any to escape. One attempted, chasing a wolf a short distance from the pond only to find itself being turned on and the wolf nipping at its heals as it dove back into the water. Out on a bluff we spotted a grizzly and her two cubs.

Herds of bison were seen at a distance and in very close proximity. A few individual bulls walked through our campground, or made their resting place in front of our parents' cabin. A cow bison and her calf walked right in front of our car and we escorted them down the road in parade-like fashion. Every night was spent on a hunt for all things wild and no night proved wasted.

We learned about the history of the lake, constellations in the sky, the amazing creature that the bison is, and so much more.

Our adventures, both those before reaching the park and those in the park, bonded us even more closely to our folks (if that's possible), and made us realize how truly blessed we are to have parents that love us with so much love.

Our trip was blessed in so many ways, and we are so thankful the Lord made the way for us to go.

Family

2011-08-31T13:11:00.000-07:00

We recently went on a vacation with family, that financially made no sense. But when it comes to family, sometimes things don't make sense.

My sister had a baby girl in October, that as of yet I had not met. She also adopted two boys from Haiti over a year and a half ago that I so badly wanted to see. We took this trip to meet our family, to get to know our nieces and nephews and so our daughters could spend time with their cousins. Yes, this trip made no sense, but it was important.

My sister and her husband met Bruny and Brunell on a missions trip to Haiti. They fell in love with them and began the adoption process soon there after. The boys were three at the time. Eight years later, when the boys were eleven, they arrived on US soil. Tragedy brought them home. Unfortunately, the boys had to live through the earthquake in Haiti, and experience all of the after shocks and the fear that came with it.

A year and a half later, when they were twelve, I was able to meet them. They are amazing! I fell in love with them instantly. They are sweet and full of joy, obedient and polite.

I realized pretty early on that we would only have a week together and so we made the most of every moment. Every morning I greeted with a "Good Morning Hug!" Which, even in the midst of a baseball game, they stopped everything and wrapped their arms tight. We swam, hiked, rodeoed, floated, snapped picture after picture, ate and ate, and yet as the time arrived to say goodbye, I realized I hadn't had enough moments. One week to catch up on a lifetime.

As the goodbyes were said and the tears flowed, I was so grateful to have met the newest members of our family.

Papoose

2011-06-30T22:58:00.000-07:00

We were at our friend's house a few weeks back and they introduced us to the joys of the "papoose". When I first heard this word, I wondered, "What is 'papoose', and why have I not heard of this before?" So, I am here to explain it to you. There will be no pictures, my apologies, due to the fact that my camera is playing hide-and-seek. (It is currently winning.) So, I will do my best to explain in detail.

A papoose is simply a piece of cloth tied around one in such a way that an object can be carried inside. Our object on this day was a rabbit. Please imagine my daughter Adalie, papoose tied neatly around her neck, bunny burrowed inside, and the sweetest and most ginormous smile stretched across her face. She was in heaven.

Now, of course, this was not going to be a one time event. Later in the week, all three girls were sporting their very own papooses, made from the most special of blankies. Baby dolls tucked carefully inside and the roll of mother being practiced with grace and beauty.

Later in the week however, the papooses, possibly being too difficult to tie, were exchanged for bungy cord, one baby, switched out for three premies, and the grace that once was, .... well you get the picture.

(Smiles remained ginormous, and were shared with all.)

Always

2011-06-30T22:15:00.000-07:00

What a terrible word! I found myself speaking this word today in a sentence that wasn't positive. I was instantly convicted and just wanted to spit. Things have not always been this way or that. We've had highs and lows. We've been full of joy and full of sorrow. We've known good days and bad days, days full of progress, hope, excitement, dreams, and other days that we've desired would just end so we could bury ourselves deep within the cavern of sleep. "Always", what a terrible word to be used in such a blessed world.

In writing I realize in only one instance does this word speak accuracy, and that is when speaking of our God. Because it is only with Him that we have "always". HE is ALWAYS faithful. HE is ALWAYS loving. HE is ALWAYS with us. HE is ALWAYS our provider. HE ALWAYS cares. HE is ALWAYS God. It is only here that "always" becomes beautiful.

Our Church

2011-06-28T19:50:00.000-07:00

I love my church! We meet at Regal Theaters in Lacey, we have breakfast every morning at 9:25, and our kiddos get to learn about Jesus and play at Charlie's Safari for Sunday school. All of these things are awesome, but what is truly amazing are the people. We have a church filled with people who love the Lord and love others. Our church has become an extension of our family, and we are so grateful to be a part of this body. We are blessed.

(I just wanted to share.)

Food Fight

2011-06-15T22:56:00.000-07:00

I made pancakes for breakfast a few mornings back and grossly overestimated the amount needed for our group. After everyone had their fill, there was quite a stack left on the plate. I didn't get them in the freezer quite fast enough, unfortunately, because a little while later I heard laughter and then saw pancakes flying through the air.

This food fight, began by daddy, was one of the cleanest food fights ever. These pancakes flew through the air quickly and hit their target with precision. There was little mess and I only heard a few "ow's". For the most part there were giggles, a lot of running, jumping and dodging, and it wasn't until the pancakes began falling apart that the fun was ended.

Later that night, when the girls were sound asleep, Seth looked in the crack of the couch and discovered ...

a pancake!

Let's hope all the others have been discovered. :)

Zoie Turns Five!

2011-06-15T21:48:00.000-07:00

Well folks, it's official, my baby girl is FIVE, and excited doesn't begin to express how Zoie feels about it. "Mommy, I can buckle myself now, because I'm five. Mommy, I ate all the food on my plate, because I'm a big girl now. Mommy, no one had to carry me on our hike, and I only had to hold your hand a few times, because I'm five now!!" While standing at the sink and being able to reach the water to wash her hands, "I'M SO GLAD I'M FIVE!!"

My baby is five! Happy Birthday, Zoie Faith.

Invitation

2011-06-15T21:16:00.000-07:00

I love my Adalie. She blesses me continually, and this time brought such joy to my heart. I was headed to the grocery store and decided to take only one child with me, and she was the lucky winner. As we were heading out, she told me she wanted to invite someone to church, and so brought an invite card. In the car she said that she had been practicing what she was going to say all day. She shared her plan and I asked her if she wanted to pray. She said yes, and so before we arrived at the store we prayed for the Lord to show us who to invite and give us the courage to do it.

Almost immediately upon arrival, we spotted a mom and her daughter in the check-out. Both Adalie and I noticed them and began heading in their direction. Then Adalie tugged on my shirt and said, "Mommy, it's not them." So, we turned around. "This is really hard, mom," Adalie stated with a big sigh. "I know, but the more we practice, the easier it will get," I said, "Remember, we prayed for Jesus to give us courage."

I then got in my "go" mode and hurried through the store to get the shopping done. By the time we were heading to the check-out I had almost completely forgotten about our intended purpose. All of a sudden Adalie grabbed my arm and said, "Mommy, I saw them." We turned around, headed back two rows and she said, "They're down there." As we walked down the aisle she said, "I want to do the talking, okay mom." At the very end of the row was a mom with her daughter and Adalie walked right up to them and began talking. "Our church meets at Regal, and we have breakfast every morning, and the kids get to play at Charlie Safari." I pointed to the card Adalie had in her hand and she handed it to the mama. I told the lady we would love for them to join us.

As we walked away I asked Adalie how she felt it went, and with a big smile on her face she said, "That felt really good." I was so proud of my little girl in that moment.

Adalie's boldness is going to make an impact for the Kingdom of God, and I am thrilled that I get to be a part of it.

Memorial Day

2011-05-30T12:41:00.000-07:00

My brother-in-law is in the reserves and he and his wife (my sister) have given a lot for my freedom. When my sister was 6 months pregnant he left for 6 months of training, leaving her with 3 of her own grown children and 2 twin boys they adopted that year from Haiti. He came back for a few days when the baby was born and then had to leave for another 3 months in service to our country. Leaving her to raise all 6 children on her own.

Hundreds of thousands of men and women have given similar sacrifice so that I can live in freedom, so I can spend time with my children, so my husband can stay home and watch his girls grow up.

Others have paid the ultimate sacrifice leaving behind wives, sons, children, daughters, husbands, so that I can live this wonderful life of freedom.

So I wanted to pause and say, "THANK YOU, thank you for all you have given. Thank you for your sacrifice. Thank you for allowing yourself to live through times of fear, uncertainty, separation, instability, and deep sadness, for my family. I am humbled and so grateful for your sacrifice."

Women's Retreat Revelations

2011-05-30T12:17:00.000-07:00

A few weekends ago I was blessed to be able to attend the women's retreat hosted by our church. I have never been to a women's retreat before and truly didn't know what to expect. What I discovered was that when you put a group of women together with a sole purpose of hearing the Lord speak, He Does.

And God moved mightily in my life.

We discussed the thoughts of our mind. We were shown different thoughts that the enemy may try to bring, thoughts of fear, doubt, insecurity, unbelief, depression, jealousy, failure, discouragement, etc. and were told that when we accept these thoughts as truth, we are sinning. I never looked at it this way. In fact I was a little irritated to hear that those thoughts were sin. We were encouraged to ask for forgiveness for these thoughts, and then to believe that the Lord had forgiven and delivered us from them.

And I am confident of this: God broke me free from fear, doubt, and insecurity which have all brought weakness. I am now able to walk in the boldness of the Lord, because I am no longer going to listen to the voice of the enemy. Oh, he will continue his attack, but I will no longer believe his lies.

Thank you Jesus for your revelations that bring life and life to the fullest!

Oh, and we had a little fun too, racing at speeds of 35 mph down the beach! We were wild women. :)

Kylia's Thoughts

2011-05-20T15:43:00.000-07:00

The eyebrows looked a little like this.

As I was braiding Kylia's hair this morning she spoke in a matter of fact tone, "Mom, I have special powers." "You do? What are they?", I asked with great curiosity. "Warmth! I can make myself warm. All I have to do is this," she then proceeded to raise an eyebrow and turn her face red, and voila, "Now I'm warm, mommy!" "I can make my legs warm too. All I have to do is this." I have to admit, I saw nothing in her demeanor, stance, or appearance change, but she then informed me that she was tightening the muscles in her legs and again, voila, "My legs are warm!"

I never knew my daughter had super powers, but today she revealed her super secret to me, and I have to say that I feel quite privileged to live in the same house as a super girl. :)

Zoie's thoughts

2011-05-20T15:27:00.000-07:00

While driving to Bible Study, I told Zoie that her birthday was "just around the corner". She squealed with delight, and was so excited to know that her birthday was coming soon. Then on the way home from Bible study, Zoie asked, "Mom is my birthday straight ahead or is it still around the corner." I love the mind of a child!

Above and Beyond-Part 2

2011-05-20T15:00:00.000-07:00

Coming out of the shower in the morning, I heard dishes clanking in the sink, and other noises coming from the kitchen. I continued to get ready for the day, and when I emerged from my room there was my four year old standing on a chair by the sink, washing dishes. The table was set for breakfast, and there was a big smile on her face. "Mommy," she said, "I wanted to go above and beyond for you today."

Then this afternoon, Adalie came running downstairs with a smile on her face and stated, "Mommy, come up here! We have a surprise, but it is too big to bring to you." So, up the stairs we went and there at the top of the stairs was a clean bathroom, clean bedroom and clean playroom. Toys were put away, beds were made, clothes were picked up! "We wanted to go above and beyond for you mommy!", Adalie shared, smiling from ear to ear. All three girls stood there barely able to contain their excitement because of what they had accomplished.

I wrote a post a little over a year ago about wanting to teach my girls the importance of doing their best in all situations, of going Above and Beyond what is asked, and now, a year later this lesson is still being remembered. This may not happen all the time, but for today, YAY! This makes me so happy. :)

Just Cute

2011-05-20T14:45:00.000-07:00

The other morning I awoke a bit late and there was Zoie waiting for me to emerge from my warm covers. So, I climbed out of bed and began my morning ritual (a visit to the restroom). After completion, I opened the door to my daughter standing as close to the door as possible, with her Bible in hand, smile on her face, and the words, "I'm ready to read my Bible with you." We headed to the living room to cuddle on the couch to read our Bibles. "Oh, just a minute," Zoie stated and ran upstairs. She came back down with her special journal and fat, pink pen in hand ready to journal.

Zoie is 4 years old. She is not yet able to read or write, but the joy she brought her mom in that moment was immeasurable. :) Her desire to spend time with me, reading God's Word, was simply precious

Remembering my Childhood

2011-05-20T14:26:00.000-07:00

This is my dad. :)

As we were walking to the park, a friend of mine found a penny and with excitement picked it up. Instantly, the Lord brought back to memory a story from my childhood that brought me so much joy.

My family loved to go on walks. We talked, threw a football, sang songs, raced each other, etc. We were always thinking of new ways to make walks fun and one day dad came up with a doozy.

As we were walking along, my sister looked down at the pavement and observed something shiny. She squealed with delight as she discovered a dime waiting to be discovered. Then a few steps further down the path, there lay yet another shiny treasure. This got the three of us siblings excited as we now began a wonderful hunt for treasure.

What we quickly discovered was that these treasures had not be waiting long for discovery, but dad was actually throwing them ahead of us simply to bring us delight. And so, a new adventure had begun, and to this day, walking with mom and dad, we may discover a shiny treasure in our path, and a daddy with a silly smile on his face.

If I Were a Rich Man (or woman :)

2011-04-30T11:24:00.000-07:00

Seth and I have talked about wanting to show the world how BIG our God is. We have so many dreams of ways to give and bless, but so many of them have dollar signs attached. So, today this song came to mind, "If I were a rich man, la-dee-da-dee-da-dee-da-dee-doo." (or something like that)

But what the Lord has been reminding me, is that I don't have to be rich to be generous. I don't have to have money to show His love. And so, to get my eyes on what the Lord is calling me to today, I wanted to make a list of things I can do now to show His love.

1.   Write a letter of thanks or encouragement.
2.   Smile.
3.   Offer free babysitting.
4.   Invite friends over for popcorn and a movie. (Fellowship with other believers is so important.)
5.   Sing.
6.   Give a hug. (It's amazing how a hug can turn a day around.)
7.   Call a friend. (It's nice to know you are being thought of.)
8.   Cuddle with my kiddos.
9.   Encourage my husband.
10. Invite someone to church.

All of these may seem simple, or even insignificant, but they could change the course of someone's day. So, the Lord is encouraging me to continue to give. To keep my eyes wide open. To listen to His voice, and to be available.

If you have ideas, please share! It's amazing how God can speak through others.

Our Creation

2011-04-18T21:29:00.000-07:00

Last year Seth bought me a sewing machine and I knew that it would honor him for me to use it. So, for his birthday the girls and I decided to make a memory quilt. On the quilt I wanted our hand prints, and drawings of things that we do as a family. Other than that however, I had no idea what I was doing. So, off we headed to Joann's with this vague idea of what we wanted. I figured that I would pick up a few different kinds of material and throw it together into a masterpiece. :)

As we were driving I prayed for direction from the Lord, because so often I find myself wandering around this particular store and wondering, "Why am I here?"

The Lord was gracious this evening and prompted me to find a pattern, then pointed me in the right direction. I found a "quilt in a day" pattern which looked simple enough and had all of the dimensions of material needed. Whew, I was not going to have to wing this one!

The girls were a wonderful help choosing the material and together we found some that looked manly, yet had a fun flair to it. (a manly fun flair :)

A month and a half later, my "quilt in a day" was complete. And here it is! I have to admit, we girls are proud of our accomplishment!

We finished!


Kylia drew a picture of daddy in his Super Man pose, because he is our Super Man!

This is Adalie's drawing of our family on a bike ride. (We like to bike our trail to the Sound.)

Zoie drew a picture of our entire family playing ball on a sunny day. (She is the one on the right with bobbles in her hair.)

Here we are hiking a mountain, drawn by Adalie. (We love to hike and have a # of places we enjoy.)

Zoie and daddy on a date to the donut shop. (Heavenly Donuts, I've heard are quite yummy.)

Kylia drew us fishing and floating. (Our fishing location of choice-the Rogue River.)

Kylia also drew us in our kayak. (All 5 of us have floated the Sound in our inflatable kayak.)

Midnight Never Comes

2011-04-18T20:41:00.000-07:00

Our God is our provider. He has promised it and He is always faithful.

Wednesday we prayed for two things, gas for our car and food for our pantry. God provided both. God KNOWS our needs.

Yesterday Seth had a fleeting thought (it wasn't a prayer, simply a thought), "I sure would like a flat screen t.v." He knew we didn't need one, but being in the movie industry it has always been a desire of his. We received one later that day. God even CARES about our wants.

MIDNIGHT NEVER COMES!

The 11th Hour

2011-04-11T22:11:00.000-07:00

It seems we have arrived at this hour yet again. The 11th hour. The hour when you begin to wonder, will the Lord show up? Will He reveal His miracle working power like He has so many times in our lives? Yes, we are at the 11th hour. But what I wanted to report on this occasion, are the state of my emotions.

I would like to begin by bringing you back a year, to another time much like this one. Another 11th hour. At this time I was a wreck. I was stressed. I was burdened. I honestly was lacking trust in my man and in my God. I remember trying to trust in the Lord and believe that He would provide, but I couldn't get it from my head to my heart. This was an 11th hour I was not proud of.

Now, looking back four months. Yet another 11th hour. This time my emotions were not filled with stress or burden, but simply sadness. It was December, the Christmas season, and I had a sadness that I couldn't seem to kick. I felt a bit numb. I wanted desperately to enjoy the season, but felt unable to because of the circumstances.

Today, our current 11th hour is here. My emotions today, I am happy to report, are filled with an awaiting excitement for what the Lord is about to reveal. I am expectant and anticipating His greatness. He has proven Himself faithful again and again, and so in this hour I am joyfully awaiting all that He has in store. This is an hour that God shines. It seems that it is at this time that we are most able to SEE His amazing goodness. And so my eyes are open wide, and I am giddy with excitement for all the Lord has in store. It's going to be amazing!

Protecting Their Hearts

2011-04-11T21:35:00.000-07:00

After listening to our girl's conversations and observing their mannerisms on a particular day, Seth and I decided that we needed to have a little talk with them. As we were all cuddling in bed together, saying our prayers and kissing good night, Seth came in the room with a big heart in his hand. He shared with the girls the importance of protecting their hearts, of only desiring friendships with boys and nothing deeper, of keeping their kisses for their husbands, ect. Then he showed an example of what happens when we start having relationships with boys. (Notice the plural.)

"Oh, I like Billy. He is so cute.", and then Seth ripped part of the heart off and gave it to Billy. "I love Johnny.", then he ripped off another part of the heart. He continued on like this with a crush on this boy, attraction to that one, until the entire heart was in pieces. Then he picked up all the pieces and put them in one hand and pulled out another heart with his other hand. He looked at the broken pieces and stated that yes, Jesus can put these pieces back together and mend the brokenness, but asked which one they would rather share with their husbands, a mended heart or one full and beautiful.

At this point, mommy jumped in. I shared that there is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend. A boyfriend can be a beautiful gift from God. As they keep themselves for the ONE boyfriend Jesus has for them, the ONE man who will then become their husband, they will find so much love and blessing and wholeness in their marriage. I shared with them, that God had protected mommy and daddy and when we got together we were able to present our hearts to each other without a lot of rips and tears in them. "Mommy and daddy have such a blessed marriage with so much love, because we entered our marriage with a whole heart." I also shared that it wasn't that we weren't asked to be in relationship with others, (I felt they needed to know the option was there), but God protected our hearts.

A few days later, after feeling confident that this conversation had gone well, Zoie and I were talking at the breakfast table. As she was finishing up and clearing her dishes, she gave me a kiss. But then her eyes got really big, "Uh-oh mommy, part of my heart just fell off."

Well, it seems we still have some work to do. :)

Our prayer is the Lord will protect our girls hearts, that He will protect the hearts of their spouses, that He will keep them, all six of them, innocent of evil, and when the time comes for us to give them away, there will be such joy and excitement because the day is untarnished by the hurt of brokenness.

Random Thought

2011-03-31T21:30:00.000-07:00

If Seth's parents are my in-laws, what would my parents be called?

Out-laws?

Praying Together

2011-03-31T09:50:00.000-07:00

This morning Zoie woke up before I had a chance to pray (actually mommy didn't wake up as early as she should have). Zoie waited patiently as I was finishing my journal writing, and then asked if she could pray with me. So, she climbed on my lap and we began to pray. She started with a prayer of thanksgiving, "Thank you, Jesus, for my toys." Then I expounded on her prayer by thanking the Lord for his many blessings in our lives, for the ability to play and have fun, and for friends to share our toys with. She then thanked Jesus for her sisters, and again I expounded on her prayer with thanksgiving for all the members of our family and realizing how truly blessed we are to have grandparents that love us and want to spend time with us, and auntie's and uncles that care for us, for special relationship with each of them. This continued for the next ten minutes, she would thank the Lord and I would add to it. Then she was done and she said, "Amen", jumped off my lap and said, "Let's bake something."

This was such a special morning where Zoie and I were able to experience the presence of the Lord together, share our hearts with Him and grow together in Him. I felt like my legacy was already beginning to be passed down as I heard in my baby girl a desire to spend time together in prayer.

And I didn't mind the cuddle time either!

Spring Break a Little Early

2011-03-28T20:58:00.000-07:00

Two weeks ago, I received a call from my mom asking if we were busy Monday thru Wednesday of this week. I looked at my calendar, shared with her the few things we had going on, and asked, "Why, what's up?" She asked if they could come and see us and I stated, "Sure, we'll just move our Spring Break!" I love homeschooling for this reason. We have so much freedom. We have the freedom to move Spring Break to whatever week we so desire. We have the freedom to invite family up during the school week and spend the entire time with them. Freedom! It is a wonderful thing. :)

So, our Spring Break was filled with family. We celebrated Seth's birthday on Monday with a scavenger hunt to his present. He received a new driver with a huge head, and he loved it. Tuesday was Mom and Dad's 36th anniversary. We visited the state capitol for a field trip and spent the rest of the day in dessert heaven, pastries from Wagner's for lunch and dinner, and homemade cinnamon rolls for breakfast (unaware that we would be traveling to Wagner's later that day). Wednesday was the day to walk off our desserts so we headed to Nisqually National Wildlife Refuge and walked the 5 mile boardwalk in sunshine! Thursday dad wanted to treat us to lunch, and after that Dairy Queen, and then we found ourselves at the bowling alley. We bowled two games of amazing skill and strategy where my 8, 6, and 4 year old almost did as well as me. Friday we journeyed around Capitol Lake and were blessed with beautiful sunshine and touches of warmth. It was a beautiful day.

As you may have noticed, mom and dad's visit ended up extending through the week and this was due to the fact that we were all enjoying one another's company. They left on Friday to tears pouring down the face of Kylia not wanting them to leave.

Then we received a call from Auntie wanting to know if she could come up on Sunday and surprise the girls with a visit to Chuck E. Cheeses and the Olive Garden! The girls were blessed with tokens aplenty and a visit from an Auntie and her man who love them dearly.

The week of Spring Break that was originally on the calendar, as of yet had no plans, but when spontaneously moved to a different week, ended up being filled with numerous blessing and surprises. Freedom is a wonderful thing!

How'd I Get You

2011-03-17T10:52:00.000-07:00

Last night Seth and I were talking together on the couch. Seth proceeded to 'check me out', and then declare, "How did I get you?" As my heart fluttered within me, the same sentiment whirred around in my mind. "How did I get you, Seth Owen?"

From the moment we began dating Seth's eyes have only been for me. He is a man that loves the Lord and is leading his family into a deeper relationship with Him. He is romantic and tender. He is thoughtful beyond words. He is still, after 12 years of marriage, able to look at me with eyes of wonder. My man is a dreamer and visionary, which keeps life exciting! He has big goals that he strives to reach. He has a hope in the Lord that is so strong that it doesn't matter what the week before held, he has a hope that this week will bring with it something amazing. He is fun. He loves his girls. He loves others. My man is amazing, and I wonder, "How did I get you, Seth Owen? You are a gift from God."

Seth is not a perfect man, but he is a gift. I would love to hear how your man is a gift to you! Let's lift up our men up today. :)

What I Learned

2011-03-14T21:34:00.000-07:00

My last post talked about a discipleship training class that Seth and I were both taking and I wanted to share a little of what I learned. Much of it, I am still processing, but for now these are the highlights.

1. There is so much more. My relationship with the Lord will never hit a climax. I have been saved my entire life and I still have so much to learn. Just in these four weeks, the Lord revealed new truths to me, taught me most likely the simplest form of evangelism, and showed me that I can walk in His authority because He is in me.

2. There is power in prayer. This is a truth that God has been showing me throughout my life, but this class helped bring it to a whole new level. Another of our requirements was to pray out loud, without distractions, for 10 minutes a day. I have always been a very private person and my relationship with the Lord has also been very intimate. Because of that my prayers have mostly been internal, between He and me. Granted I pray out loud with my girls and my husband, but rarely on my own without any distractions. During these four weeks I have been getting up before my children to read my Bible and pray, and it has been amazing. I have found that my prayers throughout the day have also been going from internal to out loud. And I am finding that not only is there power in prayer, but my relationship with the Lord has grown stronger. The way I have enjoyed ending my prayers has been with these words, "Lord walk with me today, hand in hand, guiding me and directing my steps." I have loved the image of Him holding my hand, walking beside me, the two of us laughing and talking together like a Father holding his little girl's hand. I love my Papa.

3. Something Seth shared with me today, that I believe is a little of what he has been processing, is simply our purpose. He stated that our daily mindsets should be heaven focused. When our focus becomes eternity, our daily living will drastically change. We will no longer have in our mind the things of this world, or our own selfish ambitions, but our mind will be concerned with the things of God. His concerns will become our concerns. This class showed us that as we fill ourselves with more and more of the Lord, through His word, prayer, teachings, and fellowship with other believers, it will begin to flow out of us, and others will be impacted because of Who they see in us. We will begin to diminish so that He will increase.

All of these highlights are elementary I know, but yet so easy to forget. I pray that I will never forget and will continually grow and be changed by Him.

What would you say?

2011-03-14T20:47:00.000-07:00

Four weeks ago Seth and I began an intense discipleship training class. I was excited for this class and wondered what I would learn and how much stronger my relationship with the Lord would become. The class started Sunday afternoon and then Monday began the reason for my title, "What would you say?" On Monday, Seth began feeling a little under the weather, but was still able to function. On Tuesday the fever had hit, with chills and all. Tuesday also brought about a blown tire that had to be completely replaced due to the largeness of the slash. Wednesday I received heart breaking news from a friend. Thursday, Seth and I were not communicating well. Friday, Adalie came down with a fever, which seemed better Saturday morning, but then at 2:00 all three girls were cuddled up under blankies claiming they were cold, and 1, 2, 3 all had fevers. Our internet went down on Saturday (which is the reason for such a long break in my writing), and without internet we were unable to view our church service on Sunday.

One requirement of this class was to attend a service each weekend as well as the class. With three girls with fevers and a husband with a fever coming and going all throughout the week, this requirement was not fulfilled.

I began thinking, "Is the enemy trying to attack our family? Is his goal to keep us from this class?" Then I felt the Lord whisper, "Look at your week again." I thought that was strange, but began a fresh look. And this is what I noticed. Monday, Valentines Day, Seth and I had a wonderful date. We celebrated our 14-year dating anniversary at the Melting Pot. The fact that we were able to celebrate there, or anywhere, was a reminder of the goodness of the Lord and the incredible blessings He has bestowed on our family. Tuesday, our tire was still under warranty and therefore did not cost us to replace it. Wednesday, I received blessed news from a dear friend and was able to rejoice with her. Friday, our tax return arrived. Saturday, all three girls got sick at the same time which enabled us to get the bug through our family quicker than if we would have played, 'tag your it!'. Saturday, Seth and my communication was fixed. And without internet for fifteen days, we were kept from unwanted distractions while we were trying to focus solely on the Lord.

So, that brings me to my question. "What would you say?" Did this week bring about an attack from the enemy, or was it a week of blessing from the Lord?

I'm starting to see it as the latter.

Thank you Lord for opening my eyes to your goodness and blessing.

Answer to Prayer

2011-02-17T08:16:00.000-08:00

Today was my Beth Moore Bible Study. Every Wednesday I drop off my girls, and head over to my class in which I am filled up, stretched, challenged, and encouraged. Then I head back across the parking lot to pick up my girlies. As I was talking with their wonderful teacher about how the girls did, she shared that they were a delight and then she paused and with complete sincerity stated, "Thank you for bringing them." The look on her face and the sincerity in her voice made me pause. Thank you for bringing them? Thank you for bringing more children for you to have to care for, teach, direct, and instruct? I had never heard those words before and I was completely at a loss of how to respond.

My mama's heart was so proud of my girls in that moment. What had they done to receive such a wonderful comment from their teacher? What had they said or how had they acted?

The only thing I could think to say was that in the evening when I pray over them, one of my prayers is that we will be a blessing to others in the coming day. That is my hearts desire, that our lives will bring blessing to everyone we come in contact with. And in her comment, I knew that for this day, the Lord had answered my prayer.

Weekend of Laughs

2011-02-05T08:50:00.000-08:00

Their bruschetta was amazing.


We tried an olive appetizer. Yum!

Over the weekend, we journeyed down to Portland to enjoy a present we received for Christmas. Our excitement began Friday as we dropped our children off at grandma and grandpa's to be loved on and spoiled. Then we were off! Just the two of us!! We were meeting my parents at Macaroni Grill (another Christmas gift from two years ago :) at 6:00, so Seth and I decided to get there early to get a seat. Upon arrival, the restaurant was empty and we were seated immediately. We had an hour all to ourselves! We enjoyed yummy appetizers, flavored lemonade and adult conversation. :) When my parents arrived we had a delightful dinner and played Farkle. Then we were off to . . . . .

The Brian Regan Live Show!!! I just want to say, I didn't know it was possible to laugh for 2 hours straight. But laugh we did.

Dad was laughing before the show began!

We are all excited! Out on the town at 8:00?

Our girls spent the night with their grandparents and so in the morning, the four of us (mom, dad, Seth and I) went to Starbucks for breakfast, lingered in Hallmark, and shopped at Old Navy (another gift) where I found some fresh, new clothes that made me feel beautiful. And the whole day we were repeating jokes from the night before. The laughter continued.

Breakfast at Starbucks outside in the sun!!!!

This was a weekend to remember, a weekend of laughs.

A Good Story

2011-02-02T07:47:00.000-08:00

Every story has a few key elements that are required to make it "Good". A story needs character development. The reader needs to see the character change in some way, and to feel a connection to the character as they grow and overcome obstacles. A good story also need conflict and resolution.

One of those "bad" moments in life. (The broken leg, not the adorable, little girl. :)

This is the part I have difficulty with. I don't like conflict. I have made it a point in my blog to leave out the "bad". Who wants to remember that? I don't. This year however, something is changing in me. How can my story be complete without a complete picture of my life. How will my children know the obstacles that were overcome if I never write them? But mostly, how will I be able to look back at my life and see the Lord's hand protecting me, guiding me, carrying me, rescuing me, and basically being ever present in my life, if I don't remember those times He had to protect, guide, carry, or rescue me from. I feel the Lord has been sharing with me, that in remembering the hard times, my lifes story will be more complete. My story will have depth. I will be able to look back over my life and see how the Lord has carried me through those times. I will be able to see His hand with me at every turn. In essence, in remembering the "bad", I will be able to see the goodness of the Lord.

Throughout daddy's recovery we saw how the Lord carried us.

(Please note, I'm not a fan of whining. I don't allow it in my children and I won't present it here in my blog. I like to look at things in a positive light. So, be not afraid, there will be no whining.)

Just Cute

2011-01-27T06:54:00.000-08:00

We have had little friends showing up in the early morning hours this week. By 8:00 I have had to have 5 little girls fed, dressed, teeth and hair brushed, school bags packed and all of us out the door. On Tuesday morning, I had asked Zoie to run upstairs and get dressed. About five minutes later, little 4 year old Hannah comes down. I asked her if Zoie was on her way down and she stated that Zoie was getting dressed. I told Hannah to run up stairs and tell Zoie to "pick up the pace". Then quietly, to herself, I heard this question, "Paste? Paste?" As the realization of what I had said formed in her mind, Hannah ran up the stairs and shouted, "Zoie, your mom wants you to pick up the toothpaste!"

I love the mind of a child!

Desire

2011-01-27T06:40:00.000-08:00

I was saved at the age of 4. I began reading through the Bible at the age of 12. Every night before I went to sleep I would read a chapter. Many times I remember hearing people talk about their burning desire to read the Word. How the Spirit grabbed a hold of them and they couldn't put the Bible down. I have to admit, I couldn't relate. I read the Word because I knew it was good for me, because the Lord asked us to, and because my parents encouraged me to, but never out of a burning desire. I sometimes wondered what was wrong with me. Why didn't I have a burning desire within me? Even into my twenties I couldn't comprehend what people were talking about because it was something that I had never experienced. Yes, I loved the Lord. Yes, I desired to do His will and obey His commands, and I wanted relationship with the Lord. But where was my burning desire to read His Word?

At times I found I would read the Bible to check it off my to-do list. Other times I would read, but have a hundred other things on my mind. And reading at night, I found that I would be half asleep, rushing through my reading so I could finally lay my head down.

Somewhere along the way (Praise the Lord!), things have begun to change. I'm now reading my Bible in the morning. I am getting up before my children and my husband, and having one-on-one time with the Lord. This alone time has brought such a change. I no longer read to check it off my list, but to hear what the Lord would want to speak to me that day. I sit down anticipating that I will glean something new. As I begin my day with the Lord, I am finding my desire for Him is growing, and I am wanting more and more of Him.

Do I look full of desire? (Maybe just weirdness, but this is the best picture I could find. :)

I know I have a long way to go, but I feel I am starting to get a glimpse of the passion and desire that so many people have shared. God is moving and speaking! To Me!! As I make it a point to begin my day with Him, my life is changing. And Oh, what a beautiful thing that is!

Legacy

2011-01-24T20:28:00.000-08:00

I want to leave a legacy. I heard a sermon in which the pastor shared about his mother. He remembered, as a young boy, waking up in the morning to his mother praying in the living room. This was her ritual. Every morning, she would pray with a blanket over her head (I'm assuming to prevent interruption). What an amazing picture to stick with a young boy for life, his mother beginning her day with the Lord.

I too want to pass down to my children my love for the Lord. Now, I don't begin my day with a blanket over my head, but I hope my children have a similar picture of me when they are grown. I hope they see my desire for the Lord. I hope they see me growing every day to look more and more like Him. And my greatest hope is that my devotion to the Lord will in turn stir their hearts to love Him in an even greater way.

This mother left a legacy that produced in her son a heart to pastor. I don't know what my legacy will be, but I do know that it must start with the Lord. And hopefully, my life will touch three little girls who will grow up to become mighty women of God.

Parenting

2011-01-22T14:25:00.000-08:00

Back in November, our pastor took a survey on what parents believed were the five most important aspects of parenting. I have been thinking about this for quite some time in an attempt to articulate what I believe those are. After much thought I came to the conclusion that I can only think of three. :)

All three center around one theme, "Time".

1. Time with the Lord.

2. Time with my spouse.

3. Time with my children.

I really believe that if we spend time with the Lord, making sure that He comes first in our lives, that we are hearing His voice and following His leading, then we will find that we will desire our husband more, enjoy being in his presence, and from that will flow the ability and energy to love and care for our children correctly.

I am currently 32 years old. In writing this I think it might be fun to look back when I am 52, with another 20 years of experience under my belt, and see if I still believe these to be true. Will I look back and laugh out loud? Will I have a few more points to add (like 4 &5)? Whatever the case may be, I know for now it is good for me to articulate these.

Sharing My Joy

2011-01-21T07:55:00.000-08:00

I just wanted to share a little of my joy. These three pictures show our pantry, freezer and cleaning supplies. Please take note, they are all full!!!!! We have never gone hungry and the Lord has always provided for our needs. This however, is the first time I have seen this much food in our house! Thank you, Jesus, for your provision and blessing. We are forever grateful!

P.S. Our deep freezer had been filled with milk jugs full of water, until this shopping trip as well. Now it is filled with food! :)

Hee, Hee, Hee, this makes me happy.

Zoie's Expressions

2011-01-18T21:33:00.000-08:00

Around 9:00, after being in bed for an hour and a half, Zoie came downstairs stating that she was scared. Daddy cuddled with her for a bit and then sent her back to bed. As we headed to bed a while later, I went upstairs to check on the chicas. There laid Zoie, with wide-awake eyes, and she declared, "Mama, this just isn't working!" I guess I would have to agree with her.

God's Perfect Timing

2011-01-17T09:15:00.000-08:00

When I began writing my blog I had a single purpose, to remember. In 2011, I want to make sure my remembering includes the goodness of the Lord and how he is moving and working in our lives. So, it is with excitement that I want to share about God's perfect timing!

Our first K.K. Live Show!

In December of last year, Seth began production of a talk show. This was the second, in a series of shows he would be producing and it was a job that he said, "Was the best job he ever had." This time around however, the show had a few more expenses and our budget was cut. All of these expenses were coming out of our pay. This was okay with us. We knew God had plans and connections He was making. It was still a privilege to be a part of the production.

On Monday the 3rd, we received the first half of the payment at 4:45 p.m. We ran it to the bank and it was deposited before our mortgage came out later that day. Perfect timing #1.

One of the 5 cameras used.

On Wedensday, we received a call that the show was canceled. What? We were shocked. The income from this job was our provision for the month. My husband however, remained hopeful that the Lord was up to something and on Thursday had a chance to speak with the publishing company employing us. He asked if it would be possible for us to work off the sum of the check and to our delight and amazement they said yes! Now instead of only getting a small portion of the check, we received the entire amount! God provided in an even greater way than we could have imagined!

My husband, the producer

If the check would not have arrived on Monday, it would never have come at all. Perfect timing #2.

We received a call from the author on Friday explaining her reasons for canceling the show, and her desire to continue working with Seth in the future. Her call brought honor to my husband and dispelled any notions that he had performed poorly in his work. This call came right before the weekend allowing Seth to fully enjoy the days ahead. Perfect timing #3.

We serve an awesome God! His timing is perfect.

2010-A Year to Remember

2011-01-10T07:50:00.000-08:00

2010-A year most people are thankful to see come to an end, a year many people found themselves struggling with discouragement, doubt, fear, uncertainty, and a list of other unpleasant emotions. This last year has been a struggle, for us as well as so many, but through the struggle it has been amazing to watch the hand of the Lord move in our family! This year we have gone months without work, we have seen our refrigerator bare, our tank empty, our car in disrepair, and a leg broken requiring surgery with no health insurance. So, you may be wondering, where does God come into play? Well, when our refrigerator was bare we had friends who brought food, took us out to dinner, invited us over for dinner, brought dinner to us, let us shop in their freezers, and took us to the grocery store. I'm pretty sure there were a few yummy drinks at the coffee shop in there too! When our tank was empty we had friends fill it, stuff money in pockets, and offer rides. When our car was in disrepair we had friends offer to fix it, pay for repairs, and then two months later a Tahoe given to us by our grandfather, giving us two vehicles! When the hospital bills started rolling in, they were almost instantly covered! When Seth was unable to move, God provided work that could be done, solely on his computer. And when there wasn't work? Checks came in the mail, or from our church family. Dollar bills appeared in our purses and pockets. Gift cards to grocery stores slipped out of notes. When we hadn't even a dollar to our name we were blessed with a trip to Hawaii, all expenses paid, which for 10 days allowed us to savor the goodness of the Lord and forget our struggles for a time.

Throughout this year I have watched God's mercy and grace being poured on our family and time and time again I have asked the Lord, "Why are you so good to us?" The generosity of our friends and family has been remarkable and very humbling. We are so undeserving. We have watched as the Lord has carried us through this year and has brought us into a New Year full of promise, hope, and excitement for what He has in store for us. We serve an awesome God and it is with gratitude in my heart that I say, Thank you, Papa, for 2010. Thank you for showing us so clearly your goodness, your love, and your care. Thank you, that in 2010 your promises rang true, "I will never leave you, or forsake you".

Happy New Year Everyone! May you encounter the Bigness of the Lord this year in an awesome way!!

Christmas Togetherness 2010

2011-01-05T16:26:00.000-08:00

Our Christmas Highlights. Now remember, we had the flu and so our days were spent resting in the comfort of our family's homes. Not a lot of activities, but a lot of togetherness, and great gifts to boot!

Band Beauties! Kylia received a pink Fender electric guitar from her Auntie and Justin. Zoie received a snare drum and cymbal. Adalie is learning to play the piano and so we are now a complete band! Be looking for the band "AKZ Girls" in the coming years. They just need a little time to practice. :)

Tradition! Christmas morning isn't complete without yummy cinnamon rolls in the shape of a tree!

You may be wondering why all the safety gear while roller skating? Does this sports court look familiar? About 6 months ago, this is the exact spot daddy broke his leg. These skates were given by Auntie and Justin who were present at the time of the leg break and didn't want to repeat the incident. I.E. we have helmet, wrist pads, elbow pads, and knee pads. We couldn't find human safety bubbles, so these had to do. :)

Kylia had been asking for an American Girl, Just Like Me Doll the entire year. Do you think she received it? Way to go Grandma Sherri! You put a look of utter amazement on my daughters face.

Sherri's Restaurant on Christmas Eve, Eve. Spending time with the ones we love, when everyone else is asleep and we still want to play.

Seth's Christmas Gift? A special date for the two of us.

Loving on our Aunt Kayla and Uncle Ben. So glad we were able to spend a few days together.

This Christmas Kylia experienced the Nutcracker Ballet for the first time. Dressing in our Christmas best, we had a girl's night out complete with Grandma, two Auntie's, Adalie, and me.

We are so blessed to have a wonderful family to share Christmas with!

Don't Kill Me!!

2011-01-02T18:56:00.000-08:00

My husband has always considered himself to be somewhat like Superman. Invincible! Immortal! Basically amazing. We all had to agree. :) But on July 11th of this year, he realized something different. He broke his leg in a major way, requiring surgery and many months of recovery. We spent an entire month in Portland (where the accident happened) visiting the doctor and hospital numerous times. Upon our return home, realizing he was no longer invincible Seth increased his life insurance policy to an amount that would take care of his family should anything worse ever happen.

Since then he has been asking me silly questions or making queer statements, most of which come across like this, "You're not going to kill me are you?"

All I can say to that is, "Nope, you silly man."

(I'd rather have you than all the money in the world.)

Blessings amidst the Yuckies

2011-01-02T18:21:00.000-08:00

Warning: The language below may not be suitable for queezy tummies.

This Christmas brought with it many surprises. One of those surprises came in the form of the flu. That's right, our family came down with the flu on Christmas Eve! Adalie came first, then Zoie on Christmas Day, and tag, Kylia was it the day after. The flu is never fun, and as a mommy, it hard to see your babies hurting. But amidst it all, I have to admit that I was blessed. Each of my children lost their cookies (I apologize for any visual imagery this may bring), Adalie and Zoie a number of times and Kylia in one explosive burst. Every time, let me say it again, EVERY TIME they made it to the bathroom. Once Adalie stated, "Mommy, it's time." We made it to the bathroom in the nick of time. Again, Zoie was playing while laying down, and Seth and I heard a noise, the lovely noise you hear when someone is about to lose their cookies. As we ran out to her, we saw her hand over her mouth and fear in her eyes. We rushed her to the bathroom and again no messes! There was no clean-up, except for jammies needing to be laundered!! If you are a mom, you understand the enormous blessing in this.

Then came my girls sweet words. Checking on them while they were resting, Adalie and Kylia stated at different times, "Mommy, you're so kind and gentle." As my girls were feeling weak, missing out on Christmas festivities, unable to eat any of the Christmas goodies, they are telling me that I am kind and gentle. They melted my heart. When asked if they were doing okay, and if there was anything I could do to make them happy, they all responded, "Mommy, I am happy!"

So yes, we had the flu on Christmas day, but the Lord allowed me to see His hand caring for me and my girlies amidst the yuckies.

The Best Gift Ever!!

2011-01-02T18:08:00.000-08:00

Another surprise this Christmas came in the form of a very precious gift. For the month of December, unbeknown to me, Seth and the girls were preparing a musical number to perform for me on Christmas day. Adalie was to play the piano, while all three girls sang this song. . .

We Three Daughters

(to the tune of We Three Kings)

by Seth, Adalie, Kylia, and Zoie Himes

We three daughters of my mommy

She teaches us to be so lovely

School and sewing, music and dancing

we are her daughters three.

Oh, Oh, mama-mia you're so fine

mama-mia you are mine

Sports and drama, riding lamas?

Thank you mom for being divine!

When the performance came to an end there were tears in my eyes and a smile on my face.

Giving Thanks

2010-12-14T10:13:00.000-08:00

Our Thanksgiving day weekend was spent in Oregon. It was filled with joy and good memories and many reasons to give thanks.

Thankful for parents that love and care for us, who desire to spend time with us, and love to have us near.

Sleighbells Christmas Shop

Thankful for good memories, hot cocoa and candy canes, a daddy's love for his girls, and Christmas surprises.

Thankful for togetherness, snacky food, games around the fire, and Christmas movies.

Thankful for my man whose heart is to bless, blisters that heal, a yard to take care, and God's beautiful creation.

Thankful for music and the joy of listening to our daughter.

Glockenspiel Restaurant

Thankful for traditions, cheese fondue, and little German towns.

Zoolights, Thanksgiving weekend

Thankful for crisp winter evenings, beautiful lights all aglow, holding hands as we walk, singing songs, and silly nicknames.

But most of all, we are thankful to the Lord for blessing us with a family to cherish.

Good Words

2010-12-14T08:22:00.000-08:00

As a stay at home mom, who sometimes wonders, "Is any of this important?", the dishes, laundry, toilets, vacuuming, etc. etc. etc. My husband helped me realize, with just four little words, that it is appreciated, and it is important. The four words he spoke, not to anyone, but just because, were, "I love my home!" Those four words make it all worth it! They make me realize that sometimes the seemingly unimportant can make all the difference in turning a house into a home. In creating a place we want to gather instead of avoid. Those are good words. "I love my home!"

The First Snow of the Season!!!

2010-11-22T20:35:00.000-08:00

Sunday, a day of rest. A day to recover from the craziness of the week and recharge for another. This Sunday however, we were in for an even bigger treat. Snow began to fall! Only November 21st and already a beautiful white blanket began to powder the ground and trees! So, out came the winter gear. Snow bibs were tried on and SURPRISE!, they still fit. Boots were moved down to the next child in line. Stocking caps and scarfs were put in place and we headed out for our first snow walk of the season. Hand-in-hand with my man, we sauntered down the sidewalk, as the children skipped ahead singing joyfully, and talking excitedly of the closeness of Christmas. There was plenty of snow for angels, snow men, and a little mischievousness. After pictures were taken we headed back to the warmth of the fire, cocoa with candy canes, and a wild game of "Trouble". This was simply a beautiful day!

Breakfast Daddy Style

2010-11-06T16:33:00.000-07:00

Breakfast this morning was exciting and new. Seth emerged from the kitchen with a pad of paper and pen and began taking orders for breakfast. He shared the days specials with us, and asked if we would prefer pancakes with strawberry syrup, maple syrup, boysenberry syrup, peanut butter, whip cream, or if we would like the harvest special. Eggs were offered and which type desired, scrambled or sunnyside-up. "Can I cheese those up for you?", he asked. Seth collected our orders, even including our drinks, and began cooking. Each dish was made special, complete with marshmallows smiling brightly, and breakfast was delightful.

The girls were thrilled! After eating they disappeared upstairs. Some time later they returned in a noisy chorus. Flags flying, signs made, and music playing in thanks for daddy's special treat. It was a great start to our day!

Daddy is a special gift to our family, and he helped this day begin with smiles! :)

What I Love About My Man

2010-10-20T08:18:00.000-07:00

This weekend Seth and I celebrated our 12 year anniversary! We traveled to Leavenworth, WA, for two nights and three days. We had a blast eating at yummy restaurants with great atmosphere, miniature golfing, Christmas shopping, hot tubbing, and being together just the two of us. We were so blessed! However, it was after our weekend on the drive home that I realized, once again, what I truly love about my man. He knows how to bless me with his words. Driving home he said that he loves spending time with our girls, and our family, but what he likes most is being with me. Just me.

My heart melted all over again. I love my man!

Two Many Questions

2010-10-20T07:50:00.000-07:00

I have noticed something lately. I ask too many questions. That is, one too many. I always pair my questions together asking Seth two things at once. "Do you want to stay up a little longer or are you tired?" "Do you want lasagna or enchiladas?" "Do you want me to cut your hair now or later?" "Are you feeling better or does your head still hurt?" All these questions are fine by themselves, but when the answer is given, it gets a little tricky. "Yes." or "No." That is usually the answer I receive, yes or no. Not both. One or the other. So when asking the question, "Do you want to stay up a little longer, or are you tired?" and receiving a "Yes" response, I still have no more information than I did before asking the question. Then I wonder, did he hear the first part of the question or only the second? I guess the only answer to that is "Yes." :)

(Now, we catch ourselves doing this and we chuckle. It is amazing how many times in a day these dual questions are asked!)

Genes, Interesting Genes!

2010-10-10T21:01:00.001-07:00

Just a quick glimpse at why I turned out the way I did.

Yes this is my family.

My parents are the noses on the right.

My Sister. What beautiful white teeth!

My brother and me.

And yes, even my husband.

And I have to ask, is it any wonder that these are my children?

Oh, what interesting genes!

Aren't they supposed to skip a generation?! :)

Spanking Spoons for Sale!

2010-10-10T20:51:00.000-07:00

Early the other morning, Zoie exclaimed quite cheerfully, "Mommy, I have a great idea! We can sell all the spanking spoons and make a hundred dollars!"

Lessons Learned

2010-10-10T20:38:00.001-07:00

In Sunday School today my girls learned about Nehemiah and how he took the initiative to rebuild the wall around Jerusalem. They learned the importance of taking the initiative in their own lives to do what needs to be done, instead of leaving those tasks to others. (I was there teacher today, so I remember the lesson vividly.) At home, what struck me, was how well they had listened to what was taught. After playing outside, they were asked to bring their toys in and get ready for supper. What they did was even better. Not only were their toys taken care of, but they also decided to clean the garage. They ran inside to share with me that they saw something that needed to be done and they did it! "Just like Nehemiah!"

I love knowing that my girls listen when they are taught important lessons. But what blesses me even more is their heart to then take what they learned and put it into practice. And with a spring in their step and a smile on their face.

Fearful Nights

2010-10-04T07:22:00.000-07:00

Why do children fear coming into their parents bedroom when they cannot sleep? Why would they rather pull sheets up over their heads and pray for sleep to come, instead of finding comfort from the ones the Lord has given for their comfort? Seth and I were asking ourselves these questions after finding out that Adalie had spent a night fearful and wakeful. We tried to encourage her that she could always come to mommy and daddy at night if she were afraid again. And then Seth added, "We'll let you stay up and have icecream and watch a movie!" As soon as this came out of his mouth, I stated my concerns about this idea as Adalie headed off to inform her sisters of this new information. Well, as you would guess, the next evening, both Adalie and Kylia stood in front of us ready for fun! We sent them back to bed with a few revisions to this plan and thankfully it worked! We didn't hear from any of them for months. Last night however, after the girls had been in bed for two hours, Adalie came down with a BIG smile on her face unable to sleep. With all the love in his heart daddy asked, "Do you want to watch a movie and eat some icecream?" Adalie beamed! Throughout the next 45 minutes she exclaimed again and again, "This is the best night ever!" When the movie ended she went straight to bed and we didn't hear from her till morning. All the next day, as she looked at me with a twinkle in her eye she declared again, "Wasn't that the best night ever mom?!!"

Creative Minds

2010-09-27T16:10:00.000-07:00

We received a package in the mail the other day which contained something that I was thrilled to be receiving. We got a copier, fax, printer, scanner all-in-one machine for our homeschooling exploits and I was giddy with excitement to see what all it could do. The girls found themselves giddy with excitement, but it was not over this lovely machine, simply the box it came in! :)

BFF

2010-09-27T15:53:00.001-07:00

Seth and I were in bed last night reminiscing. We were talking about our college days, our friends, our crushes, or lack of them (due to the fact that I was madly in love with Seth almost immediately), and the fun times we had. Seth was my best friend in college and that still holds true today. He was the one guy I could talk to about anything, and we talked constantly. I didn't care what I ate around him, because he didn't care. He made me laugh, and yes, cry ( remember those crushes from before?). We danced together, raced each other, took romantic strolls in the rain, and just enjoyed being in one-another's presence. Today, almost 12 years into our marriage, we are still best friends. I love my man. I love the conversations we have had lately as we are falling off to sleep. I love that he will always be my BFF.

Fun in the Pool ?!?

2010-08-17T21:37:00.000-07:00

Could it be time for a pool?Nah! Buckets are way more fun!

Praise the Lord for Friends!!

2010-08-17T19:02:00.000-07:00

We love our friends! After being gone for a month, recuperating at the Himes' homestead, we returned home to find this sign flying in our living room, and our refrigerator stocked. Did I mention that we love our friends! The Gilbaughs and Belmudes blessed our socks off with their generosity. The girls were squealing when they walked in and the smiles were flowing as we instantly felt loved and welcomed back to our house. This was a moment to remember!

The Day Daddy Became an Art Project

2010-08-17T18:51:00.001-07:00

Paper can be used for art projects. Felt and fabric can be used for art projects. But daddy? How can a daddy become an art project? Well, it happened to our daddy one week ago. We went to the doctor and came home with a bright orange canvas for the girls to decorate. And they were thrilled! Crayons, markers, and pencils were brought out and the fun began. Within moments daddy had become a beautiful piece of art.

Zoie's Thoughts

2010-08-12T20:13:00.000-07:00

I love my Zoie so much! The statements that come out of her mouth delight and amaze me!

This last month, while in Portland, Zoie and her sisters were able to go camping without mommy and daddy. They had Grandma and Grandpa all to themselves. While there Adalie and Kylia had a chance to go fishing. They both caught a fish. Adalie was quite happy to return the fish to its home. Kylia on the other hand wanted to show daddy. So, the fish was brought back to the cabin and put in the sink. At that moment, massage therapist Auntie arrived and had a fabulous idea. She suggested a picture be taken of the fish instead of taking the entire fish home to daddy.

Kylia was thrilled with the idea and the picture was quickly taken. Then with fish in hand, Auntie ran the fish back to the lake with the girls following close behind. As she held the fish under the water, waiting to release it till she was certain the fish survived its time on land, Zoie declared, "Auntie, you don't have to give it a massage!"

Oh, I love my Zoie! I love the way her mind works. I love how she looks at the world. And I love her imagination and the way it brings a smile to my face so quickly.

All the pictures in this post have been taken by Zoie and show a bit of how she looks at her world.

Something Brown and Yummy?

2010-08-03T10:15:00.001-07:00

Zoie came out of the bathroom the other day with panties in hand. "Mama", she declared, "there is something brown in my panties." And then with all sincerity, "Maybe it is chocolate, . . .

or brownies!!"

Oh Zoie, I sure do love your creative mind.

(By the way, Mommy took the panties away quickly. You never know what could have happened next.)

The Shoot

2010-07-22T12:19:00.000-07:00

Two days after Seth's accident, he had a shoot scheduled to interview Karen Kingsbury. Without the ability to move, he had to call in reinforcements. To the rescue came our friends Mark and Tiffany, and Amber's boyfriend, Justin. (We love our friends!)

The night was amazing! Our crew did a great job of setting up the equipment and filming. The interview went beautifully, and Seth was able to film the interview which made his night.

We got to know Karen's family, whom we fell in love with. We were invited to stay for dinner. And by the end of the evening we felt more like family than a film crew. As we were heading to leave, Karen opened her book closet to Tiffany and I. We were given boxes and told, "Fill 'em up." We were in heaven.

What I loved about Karen and her family was their passion for the Lord, and the way they lived that out. It was evident throughout the evening, and made me thankful to have gotten a chance to live life with them for the night.

Bad Volleyball!

2010-07-22T11:04:00.000-07:00

We came to Portland for a birthday party two weeks ago, and now two weeks later, we are still here. Why, you may ask? Seth spiked a volleyball. That is all.

Unfortunately, in the process he came down cock-eyed on his ankle, broke it in three places, dislocated it and tore the ligaments in between. (But, I have to tell you, he scored the point and our team was winning. There is always good that can be found amidst the bad. :)

To continue with the good, once back home from the ER, Seth asked if he had sworn in his pain and I answered with a hearty, "No! You are growing up honey!"

As Seth was being wheeled out to the ambulance, he asked me to run and get the girls. He wanted them to know that daddy was okay. Kylia was pretty upset. She had already had a traumatic evening. About an hour prior to this new drama, daddy had been working on getting out a tooth, her very first tooth, and now, to top off the night, daddy was hurt. Seth gave all three a hug, reassured them he would be fine and asked them to pray for him. Then at the ER he apologized for the accident. (Silly nut! I'm not broken!) His heart was for his girls and for me and I love him for that.

Now, it has been a few days, and I have to admit the pain has not always been fun to deal with, but just this morning Seth asked, "Have I been nicer with my words lately? I've been trying really hard." I've noticed you've been trying honey, and yes you have.

It's never easy for a wife to see her husband hurting, (Believe me, I know. I got light headed and nauseous three times in the course of the ER night.) but it is nice to see growth happening amidst the pain. I love my man, and I love to see God use every situation for his glory.

Blessed

2010-07-08T10:40:00.000-07:00

Adalie told me this morning, "Mom, I'm going to get out two picture Bibles and my big Bible and read to my sisters. Because they need to learn about Jesus too." I thought that sounded super sweet but then quickly forgot all about it and hurried about my morning.

The girls were playing outside and I noticed they had gotten really quiet, so I headed out to check on them and make sure everything was okay. As I peaked my head around the corner, there they were, all 3 of them sitting on a blanket, and Adalie reading the Bible to them.

The blanket was placed perfectly in the one strip of sun shining through in the morning, Kylia and Zoie very intent on what was being spoken. Mommy's heart was blessed.

Adalie, you are right, your sisters need to learn about Jesus too. Thank you for sharing Him with them.

Nicknames

2010-06-17T21:38:00.000-07:00

Seth and I are very thankful for the names we were given. We were blessed with names that had meaning and something to strive for. Seth means "Appointed, young warrior", and April means "Blossoming, pure lily". But there was one thing both of our names were missing. We have no nicknames. You cannot shorten Seth, and I don't care for April shortened. (I'll let you figure that one out.) So, it was with great care that we named our children.

They each needed a name that had significant meaning. Adalie means, "God is my refuge, noble and gracious", Kylia means, "Lovely praise", Zoie means, "Life of faith". But they also needed a name that could be shortened if that desire ever arose. Adalie could be shortened to Addie, Kylia could be shortened to Kylie, and Zoie could be shortened (or lengthened) to Zo, Zo-Zo, Zoinaders, etc.

As you know, with nicknames, they cannot be predetermined. Sometimes names are discovered. Certain events can give one a nickname. And at other times they are given by a 4-year old sister.

Zoie has been called a number of different nicknames since she was born. The most popular being "Zo" and "Zo-Zo". So I guess it would make since that she now calls her sisters . . .

"Ad" and "Ky".

These are not nicknames that Seth and I had ever thought of. Most likely, they are not ones that we would have chosen. Yet, there they are,

Ad, Ky, and Zo, three little girls, with nicknames given, just like Seth and I had desired. Well, sort of. :)

The Night Memories were Made

2010-06-13T17:06:00.001-07:00

While in Hawaii, Seth and I were blessed with a date night. (Thank you grandma and grandpa for taking our kids for the night!) We had the night before us, $29.00 to our name, and a world of possibilities.

Heading out at 8:00 p.m., we drove to Bubba's, a cute hamburger joint, with inexpensive burgers and frings (french fries and onion rings and it was said they were, "known to save marriages".) We ordered the teriyaki burgers, because it seemed most like Hawaiian fare, and we enjoyed them with our frings, believing that this purchase had truly saved our marriage. :)

At 8:42, with the night still before us, we journeyed over to the Grand Hyatt Hotel, hoping to discover amazement. And that is exactly what we found! Upon entering the hotel we were enticed onward with melodies floating on the air. We found ourselves dancing under the stars to those tunes, feeling as if we had discovered a private world, where we were the only inhabitants.Wandering through the grounds, we drank in the sights and enjoyed the beauty. Our feet dangled as we swung back and forth to the sounds of waterfalls cascading beside us. And then we stumbled upon Tidepools. Grass huts surrounded by a lagoon, waterfalls from every view, torches burning, and fish to entertain. Walking in with $12.00 in our pocket, we asked to see the dessert menu. Molten Lava Chocolate Cake called out to us and we were quickly seated.This truly felt like paradise.Just the two of us, together.
The restaurant was beautiful, the cake delicious . . .oh, so scrumptious . . .
and quickly gone.Had we really eaten the entire thing?Finding our way to the beach, we discovered empty cabanas calling us in. Our view was breathtaking. Stars stretched for miles in all directions. Waves seemed to float to shore. Again, we were the lone inhabitants in this magnificent world!

As our night came to an end we were thankful to have been two people, in paradise, with music and waves floating together to make a beautiful, romantic harmony. Memories were made!

What is a Vacation?

2010-06-11T21:26:00.000-07:00

This question may seem a little odd, but to my Zoie, age 3, this was a very real question. It was never asked in these exact words, but it came in other ways and with other questions.

While waiting to board the plane, Zoie's sweatshirt sleeve was being nervously chewed upon. This is something that she never does and made me wonder just what was going through her little mind. (Please note the wetness and placement of her sleeve in the picture below.)

While sitting on the runway, waiting in line for our turn to take to the skies, Zoie asked, "Are we in Hawaii now?"

She was first to pick up the safety pamphlet and "read" it from cover to cover. Strangely, that seemed to make her happy (not nervous).

The plane ride went fairly smoothly with only, "Daddy are we going into the clouds?" being asked.

But when we landed in Hawaii, the questions really started to flow. As the airplane taxied to our gate she asked, "Daddy, is it looking for the hotel?" and "Looks like we won't have to row!"

As we exited the plane and headed to baggage claim she asked, "Is this where the pool is?"

Waiting for our rental car, the time feeling like 11:30 p.m. to Zoie, she asked, "Is this car going to take us home?" "Where is our bed?" "Is this car going to take me to my bed?"

We hadn't brought many of her toys from home, or other familiar items, and I realized on Sunday morning the importance of having something familiar. Seth plugged in our Ipod and blasted worship music throughout the house. When Zoie came downstairs, she heard the music and her face lit up. "Our Ipod is here?!!?!" Then she ran to her sisters and exclaimed joyously, "Thank you, thank you, thank you!!"

Her questions were so precious. Her desire to understand "Vacation" so obvious, and its meaning was explained in many different ways by many different people.

By the end of our trip however, I still don't know that Zoie completely understood "Vacation", but I am confident of this, she had a wonderful one!!

Hawaii, How Do I Love Thee!!

2010-06-08T21:11:00.000-07:00

Hawaii, a place of beauty!

A place that makes you feel beautiful!A place where you can play in the waves at 6:30 a.m.,or gather in the pool by 8:00 a.m.A place where you can climb to the heights of a mountain and get lost in the clouds,or explore deep within a cave, unable to see your next step.A place of brilliant flowers,exotic birds ?!?!?,and waves of blue stretching into forever.
Hawaii, a place of beauty!

Hawaii, how do I love thee!

Teacher Appreciation Week II

2010-05-06T17:36:00.000-07:00

Teacher Appreciation Week is now behind us, but the fun continued this week as I now had a gift card to Panera Bread. (Thank you mom! Wednesday I felt really appreciated!!)

Adalie has been asking to have a date with me. She loves the one-on-one interaction and needs a little "grown-up" time with mom every once in a while. So, we waved good-bye to sisters and headed out for lunch. We split a yummy sandwich and lemonade, and talked for a bit about school and the different sports, activities, lessons, etc. Adalie would like to participate in next year. Then we pulled out pen and paper and played a few hands of tic-tac-toe and the "Dot" game. When our food was gone, Adalie got a big smile on her face and asked, "Can we get a cookie?" We still had $.41 left on the card and some loose change in my purse so we headed back to the cashier.

With tummy's full, and a few chocolate crumbs on our faces, we headed to the library. (Previously requested by Adalie.) We found a zany chapter book, and for the next hour, cuddled on comfy chairs,we read together.

Something so simple, and yet so good! Teacher Appreciation Week definitely needs to become a tradition in the Himes' household!! :)

Teacher Appreciation Week

2010-05-03T11:26:00.000-07:00

This week I was blessed by my mom. She gathered some goodies and let my girls know that Teacher Appreciation week was a comin'. She explained to them what it was and they joined in the excitement as every day she had a little treat for them to give. On Monday, Kylia came down with the orange note above and a package of M&M's. She was so excited! Her note was so sweet, and blessed me to know that she realized that teaching was hard work. (The M&M's were eaten that day and so not able to make it into the picture.)

On Tuesday, I received a package of chocolate cookies, a drawing from Zoie and this letter from Adalie. She made lunch later in the week and did a great job!
Wednesday brought a package of peanuts, and this note from my mom with a $10.00 gift card to Panera Bread. Yummy! My mom's note was perfect. Thursday and Friday were equally sweet. Mom, you blessed me this week in a wonderful way. Thank you for encouraging the girls to appreciate even the little things, and for bringing excitement into their week, as well as mine. I love you.

Just Sing!

2010-05-03T10:11:00.001-07:00

This last week I was very emotional. This was hard for Seth to see because he loves my joy, and unfortunately, it went on vacation for a bit. So on Tuesday, he covered me in prayer. On Wednesday he loved me with his words. But still my joy did not return. By Friday he knew what he had to do. He purchased some worship music that I love and blasted it! After listening to it and singing along with it for quite some time, I thanked him. He responded with, "I just wanted to hear you sing."

Oh my husband, you melt my heart, you bring me joy, and I am so thankful for you.

p.s. My joy has returned! :)

Problem Solving at its Best

2010-05-01T18:30:00.000-07:00

I asked my girls to go upstairs and clean the playroom this morning. About fifteen minutes after sending them up, I called them down to clean off the stairs. As they were coming down they informed me that they had bad attitudes upstairs. So, to remedy the problem, they put themselves in timeout, noses in the corner.
They came out of time out with happy hearts, and cleaned the room beautifully.

Girls you bring joy to my heart! Way to problem solve and overcome the grumps! You three are amazing!

A Little Personality!

2010-04-24T10:30:00.000-07:00

After looking through my pictures today, I realized something about my Kylia. She has PERSONALITY!! Let me show you what I mean . . .

Kylia you are full of personality and life! I like your nutty side!

My Little Kneaders

2010-04-24T10:03:00.000-07:00

As I began to prepare cinnamon rolls for a get-together, Adalie and Kylia both wanted to help. So, hands washed, up on the counter they climbed. They had never kneaded dough before, but I'd have to say they did a pretty good job! Notice the palms pressing beautifully into the dough?As Adalie continued kneading, Kylia admired the dusting of flour on her hands.
The girls were great help! And as you can see, the cinnamon rolls turned out beautifully.
Thank you ladies! You are becoming great bakers already!

While Mommy's Away the Children will Play!

2010-04-24T09:58:00.000-07:00

Mommy was gone for the evening. The girls with daddy. I came home late and all were asleep. But in the morning I began to wonder, "What did daddy and the girls do all night?"

I Want to Be . . . Different

2010-04-21T15:33:00.000-07:00

What makes a person begin to see themselves in a different light? What makes a little girl desire to look different, act different or be different? Just this last week I had both Adalie and Zoie share with me some of these desires. As I was putting on my make-up Adalie came into the room and said, "Mommy, I don't want to be seven. I want to be five or six because I was cute then. I want to be cute." And then later that same day, I told Zoie that she was cute (maybe this is where the above comment came from) and she said, "I don't want to be cute, I want to be cool! Because I am cool!!"

Well Adalie, you are cute and beautiful, precious and sweet, and you have such a wonderful heart. I am so proud of you and I love you enormously.

Zoie, you are perfectly cool! :) I'm sorry though chica, you are stinkin' cute. Mama loves you so much.

Oh Lord, help us to raise our children so they are always content with how you made them and expectant for all that you have for them. Help them to know that they are beautiful inside and out and that you made them perfectly.

The Chocolate High

2010-04-04T20:32:00.000-07:00

Have you ever had a child so high on chocolate that you are amazed at the crazy energy pouring forth from their little bodies. Well, this happened to Adalie just last weekend. After enjoying a scrumptious dessert made by grandma, Adalie acted pretty normal. But then an hour and a half after putting her to bed, at 9:30 p.m. to be exact, I heard noise coming from the bedroom. As I walked in the room, Adalie was running in slow-motion declaring with elongated speech, "I h a v e s o m u c h e n e r g y!!!" Then her words picked up speed, "Mommy, can I run around the house ten times? Mommy, I'm not tired. Mommy, can I go play with grandpa?"

Five minutes later, "SNORE, SNORT, SNORE." Little girl came off her high.

Up and Beyond

2010-03-20T20:26:00.001-07:00

I am in the process of teaching my children the importance of giving 110% in everything they do. Lately, it seems, the girls have been doing just the minimum, and it is beginning to get tiring. So, they have received a few "mommy talks" about the importance of going "above and beyond" when asked to do something. If asked to make bed, pick up toys too. When asked to clear their dishes, clean off the entire table. If asked to write two sentences, write three interesting ones.

I believe my talk got through to Kylia, when the next day, after being asked to put the pillows back on the couch, she replied, "Mommy, I am going to go 'up and beyond' for you today!" She then folded a blanket, took mine and Seth's Bibles and journals to our bedrooms, made our bed :), and did a handful of other tasks. Adalie then caught the spirit and ran upstairs to clean saying, "I'm going to go 'up and beyond' too!"

I love to see a child who has a heart to go 'up and beyond' in everything they do! So, we will continue teaching, continue loving, and continue guiding our children toward that goal.

(Kylia didn't clean toilets that day, but these were the only cleaning pictures I had, so I stuck them in. She loves to swish toilets, so these pictures had to go in somewhere! :)

Zoie's Ultimate Story!

2010-03-16T21:12:00.000-07:00

"I am going to read you a story", Zoie declared as she sat down with Bible in hand. She opened the Bible and began, "This is a story about Jonah and the Big Fish".

It went something like this, "In the beginning there was a big fish. The big fish swallowed a little fish. Then Sleeping Beauty became friends with the fish. There was a giant, but he died. And Daniel was with the lions. And a meatball fell from the sky. Then Golden Eagle saved Megan who was screaming. Then Mary and Joseph and Baby Jesus were in a big storm and it was really cold." The story continued like this for a while. In it was every story she has ever heard. Some of them Biblical, some from movies and another from a story daddy tells at night. None of the stories complete, some mixed-up, but all told, completely adorable. She then closed the Bible, said, "The End", and headed to bed.

Literally Speaking

2010-03-11T16:35:00.000-08:00

The weather was beautiful! The sun was shining! Our family was antsy. So, to the beach we headed. We hiked 2 1/2 miles through dense trees, muddy trails, and broken bridges and had a blast! As we neared the end of our hike, Zoie was beginning to run out of energy. As I was stepping all over her, I told her to "pick up the pace". She stopped, turned around, looked at the ground, looked all around and said with shoulders shrugged, "What's pace?" It was adorable! She was looking around trying to find 'pace' so she could pick it up. All I can say is, she is an obedient child!

Daddy and His Girls

2010-03-04T20:40:00.000-08:00

I love this!Twirl!
Spin!
Dip!
Dancing with daddy is the best!

A First

2010-03-04T20:14:00.000-08:00

What does a three-year-old . . .and a pair of scissors have to do with each other?
Look closely.
That's right! Bangs!
Do you think she knows she's in trouble?

(Sorry Grandma Sherri, she beat you to it :)

Did I Mention?

2010-02-28T20:28:00.000-08:00

This is the last day of February and I have not yet shared our Valentine's Day adventures. So here goes. We began by getting a babysitter. This is noteworthy because this is only the 3rd time since we have had children that we have paid for a babysitter. We have been so blessed with friends and family that will love on our kiddos that it is very rare for us to need the services of the above mentioned sitter. Once the sitter was up-to-speed and the kids had excitedly rushed her up the stairs to share with her the wonders of their playroom, we were off. Our first stop, one of my favorite restaurants, The Olive Garden, where we enjoyed some delicious Italian cuisine. Have you ever tried Zuppa Tuscana? Yummy!

Belly's full, our night continued in a little more adventurous way. Seth and I decided earlier in the week to go roller skating, and roller skating we did go! Driving there our excitement was high and our spirits giddy! Upon arrival however, our giddiness became nervousness. Neither Seth nor I could remember the last time we roller skated. The rink was currently full of speed skaters racing around and around, and we were unsure if we would be able to stay on our feet. At this point, we looked at each other and said, "Should we do it?" The kind lady behind the counter was patient with us as we gathered the courage to skate, but then the money was paid and there was no looking back.

We traded in our very stable, secure shoes, for skates that were anything but. As we wobbled to the rink it occurred to me that I now needed to use the little girls room. So, into the bathroom I teetered trying desperately not to fall and wondering if I would make it out alive. As I emerged much later, due to the concentration it took to stay upright, Seth and I made our way to the rink. We held hands, took a deep breath and stepped out onto the slippery surface. And then we were skating!! The wind in our hair, the floor passing ever-so-quickly beneath us. We were skaters once again. The night passed with a few near misses, a couple of wobbles, and just a few more breaks than we remembered taking as children. But, upon our feet we remained!! As we ended the night, enjoying an ice cream together, we were glad for our adventure, but mostly thankful that we didn't fall down!! :)

Something so Simple

2010-02-28T19:49:00.001-08:00

As I was cooking dinner the other day, and Seth was talking to a buddy on the phone, I interrupted his conversation to ask a quick question. He answered it and then stated to his friend, "Just talking to my wife." And for some reason, at that moment, those words were sweater than honey. The words 'my wife' sent a thrill through me. It made me realize how glad I am to be his wife, to have him as a husband. We've been married for 11 years and still those words bring a smile to my lips.

Conversations with Children

2010-02-22T09:53:00.001-08:00

Sitting around the breakfast table this morning, Zoie began an interesting conversation. She asked how orange juice was made, so Seth shared how they grow oranges, pick them and then put them into big machines to squeeze out the juice. He then stated that the juice is heated to kill any bugs that may have gotten in. This is when I added a little information of my own, "The heating process is called pasteurizing." Kylia quickly asked, "Pastorizing, like Pastor Tim?" :) This is when the conversation ended. I couldn't stop laughing. Kylia, you are adorable!

A Day in the Life of the Himes

2010-02-13T13:47:00.000-08:00

A picture of our day.

Today was an unusual day because daddy was gone. Seth has an office from home. Well, it is actually a coat closet under the stairs, but he likes to refer to it as his "Command Center". Today, Seth had to work out of the house and so his office was empty. It's good for him to leave this itty-bitty room every once in a while. :)

As I prepared breakfast the girls began their day with spinning. And laughter. Lots of laughter. It was a great way to start our day.
Our breakfast of eggs, sausage and toast was quickly gobbled up.After breakfast, the girls headed upstairs to get ready for the day. The play room and bed room were quite the mess this morning, and so after finishing their list they did a quick clean-up. Once the rooms were clean, we headed to the classroom/playroom and began school. School, when we are home, begins with Calendar Time. We pray, read our Bible, go over our memory verse (we are on week #4, shown below), and do our calendar. Some times we play instruments and do Mad Libs. Since this was fun Friday, after Calendar we pulled out Sequence-States and Capitals. The girls had a lot of fun learning this new game.
12:00 rolls around quite rapidly at our house and it's already time for lunch. While I prepared the food, the girls sang and danced to the soundtrack from Annie. Quite often our house will sound like a musical. (Zoie has been known to break into song to explain her love for her family or Jesus.)

Lunch: Mac-N-Cheese, carrots, apple sauce, and french bread. Yes, it is time for mommy to go shopping!After lunch, Zoie heads to bed. She was not happy to have to lay down today, but a girls got to do what a girls got to do.After a few tickles the crying turned to laughter. . .And Zoie went to bed happily.
I then headed downstairs to get the girls started on their school work. Weirdly enough, Adalie was missing. I quickly found her hiding beside the love seat. Nice try sweetheart, but you still have to get your work done. :)
I had a bathroom to clean today, so the girls joined me in my room while I cleaned. That way I was able to answer questions, and still get some work done.

After the bathroom, then there was some laundry to fold.
And yes, five socks lost their partners. How does that always happen?
Schools over just in time! Daddy's home!
The girls got out Dr. Suess's Cat in the Hat, "I Can Do That" to play. This game has you 1. Do a motion. 2. With an object. 3. On your head, tucked under your chin, between your knees, etc.
It was pretty cute!
They really enjoyed Sequence this morning and so they chose to play again. Kylia was a little upset because Adalie won two games, and Kylia was sure she would never be able to win. Adalie assured her that she would win soon. (And if I'm lucky, the girls will learn their capitals in record time.)
While the girls and I played, Zoie stuffed the game pieces in my pant pockets. Amazingly enough, it kept her entertained the entire game! Once they were all in, she then had to pull them out, one-by-one when it was my turn to play.
Daddy joined us while we played.

Next the girls acted out a little play. Adalie was the princess, Kylia was the prince and Zoie was the other princess. Kylia chose Adalie for her princess and so Zoie became the baby. The blankets were the girls' fur coats. Quite the royal entourage!

While the girls played, I prepared dinner. Homemade French Fries and Sloppy Jo's was the menu for the night. It was a, "What do I have on hand?" sort of dinner.

After dinner, I was off to the gym. This was another unusual thing about the day. Mommy last exercised a week and a half ago. Well, I'm trying. (And yes, I went to exercise with a Sloppy Jo and French Fries in my belly. Smart idea? I don't think so.) While mommy was gone, daddy and the girls did a little Karaoke to Hannah Montana.

I told you they love to sing!
After this day of fun times, yummy food, cleaning, and a bit of learning, the little chicas were tucked in bed.

Good Night from the Himes 5. Sweet Dreams!

My Little Cooker

2010-02-10T21:35:00.000-08:00

Adalie received a children's cookbook for Christmas and has been asking to bake or cook quite frequently ever since. Together we made a few recipes, but this one night, as I was furiously making two dinners (that's a different story) she asked to make something out of her cookbook. I told her that she would have to make it on her own, without any help from mama, and if she felt she could do that, than she could go ahead. Well, she decided that she could and she was off. She found a recipe she was excited about, Monster Cookies, and began measuring, scraping, mixing and cutting. Why cutting? Monster Cookies call for candy of all types, so she rummaged through our Christmas candy and found M&M's, Snickers, Peanut Butter Cups, BabyRuth, and more. After all the blending was complete, she got to lick the spoon. You may be wondering how these cookies turned out. A seven year old making cookies on her own? Well, I am happy to report that they were scrumptious. They were light and fluffy, and gobbled up by all. Well done, Adalie! You are an amazing cooker in the making!

College Reunion Memories

2010-02-10T11:33:00.000-08:00

Seth and I revisited our old stomping grounds this weekend. It was our 10 year college reunion! Seth and I met at George Fox University 14 years ago, fell in love, and married our junior year of college. This weekend we returned to this memorable place where our relationship first began. It was so much fun to walk through campus reminiscing of times past. We walked up the hill to the dorms we lived in our freshman year, remembering how Seth decided on that hill that he was the only guy that would be right for me. (I was already head-over-heals for him by this time and so I heartily agreed.) We talked about the silly things we used to do, like duct taping our legs together, and going to meet people. We talked with friends from back-in-the-day and realized how blessed we were with such quality friendships. They are still amazing!

We visited Camp Tilikum where we were both camp counselors, and shared so many memories. (Seth had kept the key to the Big Swing on his keyring all these years. Unfortunately, the locks were changed and so we performed a small ceremony, saying goodbye to a small piece of history. We took pictures of this momentous event which were quickly lost by a memory issue in my camera. I was greatly bummed.)

Sometimes revisiting times past can be awkward, but this weekend we were reminded of all the good that surrounded us during these years, and we were blessed.

Our Top 5

2010-01-25T13:37:00.000-08:00

Seth and April's Top 5 Ways to 'Make-Up'

5. (If the argument took place in bed) Seth will put his leg over April and rip all the covers off. An enormous tug-of-war will begin, usually ending in April losing. Thus April is forced to cuddle up to Seth because she is "FREEZING!!"

4. A Water Fight. Water flying through the air, for some reason, makes one a bit flirty.

3. ICE! Trying to avoid an ice-cube down the shirt, or pants, is a lot of work, and any frustration you may have felt before will be forgotten as you try to think of ways to dodge the Ice Man!

2. Serve your man his favorite food. Food makes everyone happy.

1. The last and best way to make-up, Steam Roller! (I don't care who you are, if you are steam-rolled and stuck under the weight of someone else, you can barely breath, let alone hold a grudge.)

So, the next time you and your honey have a little tiff, just try one of Seth and April's sure-fire ways to make-up and make-happy!

A Couple of Goobs :)

2010-01-25T13:26:00.001-08:00

As Seth and I were heading to bed last night he grabbed my hand and declared, "To Oz?" To which I replied, "To Oz!" We then jumped off the couch skipping and singing, "We're off to see the wizard!" Unfortunately, that's as far as we got due to the laughter that quickly ensued.

I love that Seth is a goob just like me. And it is so much fun to be goobers together!

Nature's Effects

2010-01-23T10:20:00.001-08:00

While walking in the rain this last weekend, I found that the wetness of the day, the crispness in the air, and the joy of family brought out interesting characteristics in each of us.

For some of us, the water falling from the sky made us feel like fishy's. Our faces puckered and we couldn't stop.

Others, instantly felt like conquering the raging river. "Onward! We will survive! Don't give up!"

Others, (not sure who that is?), broke into song. Yep, at the top of her lungs. (I'm telling you, nature does weird things to me.)

Others needed to cuddle to keep warm. Grandmas are so good to cuddle with.

Grandpa got protective due to the slippery rocks. Good job grandpa, Zoie had no fear because she was with you.

And then, when the walk was over, Kylia decided she didn't want to be inside and so covered her eyes, dreaming of picnicing on a grassy knoll. Or maybe, she was just being silly?!? :)

Nature brings out interesting things in all of us. How about you? What does nature do to you?

Groceries

2010-01-23T09:01:00.000-08:00

I went grocery shopping yesterday and stocked up on everything that we have run out of. I'm not a fan of grocery shopping simply because of the time it takes, trying to make sure I get the best price on everything, and did I mention the time it takes? When I arrived home after 2 1/2 hours of this lovely chore, my girls helped to change my "I don't like shopping" mood into something so much better. As bag after bag was brought in, there was a chorus of excitement as the food was removed. "Oatmeal! Oh, mom I love oatmeal!" "Cheese!!" "Oh, did you get this for me?!!" It was adorable and I couldn't help but laugh over the items they chose to get excited about. To top it all off, as I was cooking dinner, getting the broccoli ready to steam, Zoie exclaimed loudly, "Broccoli!! Thanks for making broccoli for me mama!"

You girls turned shopping from a chore, to a joy.

Dancing

2010-01-23T08:55:00.000-08:00

Ended my evening last night dancing in the kitchen with my husband. My head on his chest, worship music playing, lights low. It was the perfect end to a hard day.

Learning from Grandpa

2010-01-19T20:36:00.001-08:00

My parents were up this weekend, and I realized something about my dad. He loves to teach people. Adalie wanted to play the piano for grandpa, so together they sat on the bench and she shared with him her newest accomplishments. He was tickled to hear her play, and then began to teach her a little: octaves, chords, and a few songs. He was in his element and loving every minute of it. There was a glimmer in his eye as he sat there beside his granddaughter sharing his life. His excitement was contagious and pretty soon Kylia was in the room wanting to learn too!

Dad, you are an awesome teacher! Thank you for loving on my girls. They love you bunches!

Maturing

2010-01-08T21:45:00.001-08:00

Adalie Grace, seven year old, is quickly becoming an eight year old. She is beginning to do activities that are more grown up, and responding to situations in a more mature way. Within the last month she has begun taking showers. She made pancakes with out any help, read the directions, mixed the ingredients, flipped them on the hot griddle and everything! She has requested to go on a coffee date (yes she said coffee, not hot cocoa!) with mommy "so we can talk about things and laugh together, because it is so fun to laugh together mommy." This is a fun stage of life, but it is making me realize that I indeed need to cherish every moment, because my baby girl is growing up before my very eyes.

I love you Adalie. Let's always laugh!

Our Family in Words and Symbols

2010-01-07T20:20:00.000-08:00

For Lil' Sprouts, our homeschool group, we are doing a mini-winter olympics with our children, complete with our very own homeland flags. Each family is supposed to design a flag that represents their family in some way. In preparation, I sat the girls down and asked them what words they felt described our family. Here are a few of the responses:

Kylia-Love

Adalie-Hard Work

Zoie-Not Listening

Kylia-Joy

Adalie-Have Fun

Zoie-Get Spankings

Kylia-Giving

Adalie-Thankful

Zoie-Not Touching the Fire

Kylia-Listening and Obeying

Adalie-We love being silly and laughing

Zoie-Petting Dogs

Kylia-Going in Heaven

Adalie-Trusting God

Zoie-Believing in Jesus

Kylia-Dancing

Adalie-Praise, Grace, Faith

Zoie-No jumping on the trees

Zoie stated all of her lines with complete sincerity. I, on the other hand, had a very hard time holding my laughter in. Zoie, you are such a joy! I love the way you think!

Zoie's comment "believing in Jesus" did make the cut! On our flag is a purple cross! The yellow represents the "Joy" that Kylia mentioned and the "Silliness and Laughter" Adalie shared. The heart is the "Love" our family has for each other. And the green under the heart symbolizes the way our family is always growing and changing, desiring to look more like Jesus. (Adalie wanted the color green, so we came up with a meaning for it at the end.)

Well done ladies!

p.s. Just in case you were wondering, Zoie is actually a very happy child!! :)