Every story has a few key elements that are required to make it "Good". A story needs character development. The reader needs to see the character change in some way, and to feel a connection to the character as they grow and overcome obstacles. A good story also need conflict and resolution.
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One of those "bad" moments in life. (The broken leg, not the adorable, little girl. :) |
This is the part I have difficulty with. I don't like conflict. I have made it a point in my blog to leave out the "bad". Who wants to remember that? I don't. This year however, something is changing in me. How can my story be complete without a complete picture of my life. How will my children know the obstacles that were overcome if I never write them? But mostly, how will I be able to look back at my life and see the Lord's hand protecting me, guiding me, carrying me, rescuing me, and basically being ever present in my life, if I don't remember those times He had to protect, guide, carry, or rescue me from. I feel the Lord has been sharing with me, that in remembering the hard times, my lifes story will be more complete. My story will have depth. I will be able to look back over my life and see how the Lord has carried me through those times. I will be able to see His hand with me at every turn. In essence, in remembering the "bad", I will be able to see the goodness of the Lord.
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Throughout daddy's recovery we saw how the Lord carried us. |
(Please note, I'm not a fan of whining. I don't allow it in my children and I won't present it here in my blog. I like to look at things in a positive light. So, be not afraid, there will be no whining.)
It takes so much courage to share the 'bad.' I'm glad you are doing it. I think it is a tendency in us as moms to try to shield our kids from the 'bad' or the 'difficult.' But I think you're right, if we don't share from all parts of our lives, the easy and the hard, the good and the bad, it gives our kids a less than complete picture of how the Lord wants to provide for us in every season. Awesome story!
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